How
Do I Know If Someone Loves Me?
Someone
who loves you will inadvertendly try to be compatible with you. One
very direct way of seeing someones attempts for that compatibility is
body language. Watch the other person to determine if she feels love
towards you. If she is copying your moves, the way you speak or the
language you use, she is most definitely fond of you. You can also
tell, by paying attention to how nervous someone is when talking to
you. Nervous movements, such as going through ones hair often or
tring to sit in different positions over and over again, reveal that
another person admires you, but still from a distance.
When
things get more serious and the distance is eliminated slowly over
time, there are deeper aspects that you need to pay attention to, to
figure out if someone truly loves you. If someone is trusting you and
confiding in you, you are a very important part of that persons life.
If someone is honest to you and puts a lot of effort in being
sincere, he also means to tell you that he loves you. If someone
helps you out a lot, supports you, is generous with his emotions and
considerate of your feelings, they love you very much and put extra
care in making sure that you are happy. You will find that happiness
cannot be generated, until a certain generosity and openness are in
play. The more someone loves you, the more forigving, benevolent and
conciliatory they are. They may either show great permissiveness or
be exceptionally unpermissive to show you their love. You can see
this often in parents and their children. Children mess up and
parents forgive them over and over again. This is the signature of
unconditional love. If someone is very compassionate towards you and
very insightful, they also mean to show you their love. They want to
be that one person in the world, you can go to whenever there is
something on your mind.
To
know if someone truly loves you, you need to pay attention to such
characteristics and their action. In a perfect world, the ideal
partner would fullfill all those characteristics. But many times this
is not the way things are. Find out how many of those attributes your
partner fulfills and if these are enough for your definition of love.
You will then have your answer.
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